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As a longtime owned sub I often get asked what is meant with the word FINDOM or Findom slave. Findom is not a new phenomenon in the world of online sexuality and eroticism. FindomIt means “Financial Domination”, and it refers to a type of erotic power exchange in which one partner – male or female – controls the other partner – through his/her financial resources. In this dynamic, the submissive partner willingly gives up control of his/her finances to the dominant partner as a sign of devotion, worship, and subservience.The practice of Findom is often associated with the BDSM community, although it doesn’t necessarily involve physical pain, bondage, or other traditional BDSM activities. Instead, the dominant partner uses his/her sexual appeal, his/her charisma, and psychological skills to manipulate and exploit the submissive partner’s financial resources. He/She may demand money, gifts, or attention from the sub, and he will comply because he enjoys being controlled and humiliated by him/her.Findom can take many forms, from virtual interactions in which the Dom/domme communicates with the sub through chat, phone, or webcam, to real-life arrangements in which he/she meets him for shopping trips, dinner dates, or other activities. The amount of financial domination can vary too, ranging from small tributes to large tributes, depending on the desires of the domme and the willingness of the sub.While some people may find Findom immoral, exploitative, or abusive, many others see it as a legitimate form of erotic expression and a way to explore power dynamics within relationships. In fact, many doms/dommes argue that they are providing a valuable service to their subs, by giving them a sense of purpose, direction, and fulfillment that they can’t find elsewhere.There are also those who criticize the financial aspect of Findom, arguing that it’s not true domination if money is involved. However, proponents of Findom argue that the exchange of money is not the end goal, but rather a means to an end – namely, to establish a dynamic of control, submission, and intimacy between the two partners.In conclusion, Findom is a complex and controversial practice that challenges traditional notions of sexuality, power, and intimacy. While it may not be for everyone, it offers a unique form of eroticism that can be empowering, thrilling, and fulfilling for those who are drawn to it. Whether we see it as a harmless fetish or a dangerous exploitation, it’s clear that Findom has carved out a niche in the world of online sexuality, and it’s likely to continue to grow and evolve in the years to come.